Friday, November 28, 2014

Hey You. I'm Jessica.

Like so many, I'm broke.  That's okay with me.  I know life will not always be this way.  But planning and preparing meals for my family on my tight grocery budget is hella hard.  Gone are the days where I can go to the grocery store and toss whatever I want into my cart.  I never had to stop and think about it before.  And I ate well.  I ate very well.  I loved reading food blogs and giving gourmet recipes a go.  I loved putting my own spin on recipes and making food for my friends and taking treats to work.  Life, at least the food part, was easy.

Let me back up.  I married a wonderful man I met while we worked together at a big-box retailer.  He was a department manager and I worked at customer service.  I often like to joke that it was a match made in the cash office as we spent a lot of time closing the store together in the months prior to the official beginning of our relationship.  We married in 2012 and welcomed Thing 1 and Thing 2 in 2013 and 2014.  It's been a great few years despite the challenges of raising a family in a resort town.

So yeah...I'm broke.  My husband has a good job and makes a good income, but his salary is based on the standard of living for where his company is headquartered and there is no cost-of-living considerations.  Like I mentioned, we live in a resort town.  Everything from food, to rent, to gasoline and beyond is more expensive.  What would be a very comfortable living elsewhere is super tight here.  Don't get me wrong; I'm not complaining.  He has a full-time, year-round job.  When so many of our city's businesses are dependent upon seasonal tourism, finding a traditional Monday thru Friday, nine-to-five isn't always easy.  And me?  I left my good full-time, year-round job when Thing 1 was born.  That is a decision I have never regretted.  I love being at home with my babies!

My darling Hubs has a big heart...and a big stomach.  Keeping him fed isn't cheap.  He loves to snack throughout the day and fill his belly at night.  Hubs is not a little guy.  It takes a lot of food to keep him nourished and happy.  Planning and shopping for our weekly menu on a strict budget is a challenge, but I'm getting better at it every month.  But I want to get better at making food I love to eat.  Will you join me on my journey?  Stay tuned...